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Most high school sophomores spend their free time watching TV, playing video games, or taking hashtag-laden selfies.

But 15-year-old Jacob Cramer isn’t your average sophomore.

He’s the Founder and Executive Director of Love for the Elderly, an organization “dedicated to providing happiness to the elderly” by distributing hand-written notes to nursing home residents.

“When my grandfather passed away in August 2010, I was really struck by how lonely and fragile so many elderly people are,” Cramer told us. Following his grandfather’s death, he began volunteer at his local nursing home — but what he saw there unsettled him.

“I discovered a huge flaw in the modern-day nursing home system – so many elderly people are isolated and neglected,” he said. “That’s just horrible and completely wrong. So I wanted to change this. I combined my passion for writing with my desire to give back to the elderly and founded [Love for the Elderly].”

The model is fairly straightforward: strangers from anywhere on Earth anonymously submit hand-crafted letters to Cramer, who then delivers them to nursing homes. Each letter is entirely unique and provides seniors heartfelt messages of support, riddles and jokes, or even something as simple as a description of the writer’s day.

“To this day, I’ve received letters from 47 countries in 6 continents, which is still astonishing to me,” Cramer said. “I can’t believe I’ve actually reached out to and inspired so many people to show kindness.”

But Cramer realizes the elderly face problems that letters alone can’t solve — namely ageism, or the discrimination against an individual based on their age.

He most recently spoke at a TEDx event with Cleveland State University, giving a talk titled “Embracing the Elderly: Deafeating ageism with the strongest weapon of all — love”.

Below you can see Cramer giving a similar talk at a TEDx Youth event in Cincinnati earlier this summer.

“I had an amazing opportunity to really open peoples’ eyes to the reality of isolation and neglect in nursing homes,” he said. “The theme for the TEDx event at Cleveland State was ‘Made You Look,’ so I really do think I made people reconsider their old values and beliefs about elderly people, and hopefully they’ll begin to reach out more to the seniors in their lives and appreciate them.”

Even though Cramer keeps busy running his organization and passionately fighting for the elderly, he doesn’t neglect to spend time with those who inspired him to be who he is today.

“My grandma is a huge part of my life, I love her dearly,” he said. “I cherish all the times that we spend together. I love to volunteer at my local nursing home, Montefiore. There, I have incredible friendships with the residents. It’s always nice to go in there and see their smiling faces.”

Click here to send in your very own letter to the elderly.


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Image credit: YouTube/TEDx Talks

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